Reflections

When we lose someone dear, it’s normal to feel twinges and waves of grief, even years after their death.

The recent death of a dear friend stunned me to my core.  I was so used to her being there that I found it hard to describe this emptiness.

I miss our conversations. We shared so much with each other. One unspoken bond we had was our desire to love and be loved without any compromises. We believed that love had the power to heal all wounds. That kind of love helped us forgive and move on, no matter how deeply we were hurt.

Life is filled with ups and downs, and it’s these experiences that shape our growth and resilience. It wasn't easy to accept that the time had come to say goodbye. She told me she was tired, and I encouraged her to stay strong because so many depended on her. I heard her words, but I didn’t want to truly listen or accept what they meant.

I know it was selfish of me to want her to stay; I know she is in a better place, but I can’t get over this feeling of loss.

Reflecting on the losses in my life, this moment inspired me to reevaluate my journey. At her memorial service, I was moved by the heartfelt stories of her remarkable life. She radiated love for God, her family, and her friends, leaving an indelible mark on everyone she encountered. It was striking how she always prioritized others, making time to connect and uplift them. Her legacy of kindness and connection encourages me to embrace a life filled with love and meaningful relationships. I'm truly grateful for the lessons she imparted through her remarkable spirit!

I often find myself reflecting on the profound impact of losing young lives compared to the losses we typically accept with aging. This contrast encourages us to cherish every moment and celebrate the vibrancy of life, regardless of our age. Let's embrace each stage of life with hearts full of gratitude and joy.

Proverbs 31:30 reminds us what is important, "Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman that feareth the LORD shall be praised." This has prompted me to think about my own focus.Am I too focused on what the world expects? It makes me wonder how I can cultivate a deeper reverence for God while also embracing my desire to be the best version of myself.

I find great comfort in Psalm 71:5-6: "For you have been my hope, Sovereign LORD, my confidence since my youth. From birth, I have relied on you; you brought me forth from my mother’s womb. I will ever praise you." Such reflections inspire me to celebrate life and faith every day!

Life is a journey, and the path we choose is up to each of us. Each path can lead us to our final destination. I went in a different direction than my friend, but we share the same beliefs and a deep love for our Heavenly Father. Even though we have chosen different directions, we will ultimately end up on the same path.

Psalms 73:21-24

 21 When my heart was grieved and my spirit embittered,

22 I was senseless and ignorant; I was a brute beast before you.

23 Yet I am always with you; you hold me by my right hand.

24 You guide me with your counsel, and afterward you will take me into glory.

Some people say that it's the end of the road. They say, "That's it! That's all; there is no more!" But He promises that we will rise again, and that's when I'll see you again, my friend.

Tonight, I bid farewell to my wonderful friend. With love and unwavering faith, I’m certain we will celebrate our victory together again. I can’t wait to hear her say, “Love you, Sis,” once more!